You deserve peace

 These three words can make a difference in your life,they can grant you inner peace if you really mean it when you pronounce them...these three words are,' I FORGIVE YOU'.

 Sometimes people do things to us that in real sense they can't condone, they expect us to react with anger because that's what they would have done. Truth is, it's best if we forgive and let it go because then would we find peace.
 Forgiveness is for us, so that we get well and move on. It takes a strong person to acknowledge his or her wrongs and apologize but it sure takes a stronger person to forgive

  I learnt to forgive a long time ago because I realized unforgiveness made me weak psychologically and most especially it made me really angry and more mad at my self for being worked up.
 When angry and unforgiving, I saw that I battled with my feelings alone and the person I was angry at was going about his /her daily activities oblivious of the fact that I was suffering in my heart
 So I told my self I deserved peace and I won't allow the short comings of others deprive me of that.

  Dear readers,we have started a new year,it will be for our own good if we don't carry the hurt of the previous years into this new year. Putting an old wine(the hurting us) into a new jar(new year) doesn't make the wine new..
 Let's say these three words to those who have wronged us and mean it. while at it we all should remember,we are not forgiving those who hurt us because they deserve it,we are forgiving them because we deserve peace and we deserve to move on to better things without hurtful thoughts and feelings weighing us down.. 

 thanks for stopping by.
Much love from me to you.