Dealing with premature ejaculation

Does he perform on bed like a 2 minutes instant noodles?

If yes he may just be battling with premature ejaculation.

   Premature (early) ejaculation—also referred to as rapid ejaculation—is the most common type of sexual dysfunction in men younger than 40 years.It occurs when a man experiences orgasm and expels semen soon after sexual activity and with minimal penile stimulation.  It is mostly defined as the occurrence of ejaculation earlier than both sexual partners wish. This broad definition thus avoids specifying a precise “normal” duration for sexual relations and reaching a climax. 

  
 Premature ejaculation may be primary/lifelong or secondary/acquired. Primary premature ejaculation applies to individuals who have had the condition since they became capable of functioning sexually (ie, post puberty) while
Secondary/ premature ejaculation means that the condition began in an individual who previously experienced an acceptable level of ejaculatory control . 

 Causes of premature ejaculation 
1)-primary premature ejaculation 
  
    One psychological explanation for premature ejaculation is that males are conditioned by societal pressures to reach climax quickly because of fear of discovery when masturbating as teenagers or during early sexual experiences with others. 
 -It can also result from deep anxiety about sex that relates to traumatic experiences encountered by the patient during development e.g incest or sexual assa

 2)-secondary premature ejaculation 
   -Performance anxiety is a major factor..e.g fear of failure to satisfy the partner and even the fear that an election will not last may precipitate it. In such cases the patient may blame the early climax on over excitement. 

Management.

 Medical management include several options. Any serious primary medical condition would be treated as well as any accompanying erection problem e.good erectile dysfunction. To achieve the best outcome the female partner should be included fully as possible in the treatment and counseling sessions.

 Nonpharmacologic therapy may include the following:

-Efforts to relief of underlying performance pressure on the male and this is mostly achieved through counseling. 

• -Sex therapy. 
• -Second attempt at coitus – If another erection can achieve be achieved shortly after an episode of premature ejaculation, ejaculatory control may be much better the second time

-Pharmacologic therapy. The managing physician would prescribe drugs as deemed fit. Drugs used are tailored to each individual.

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